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How To Know If An Addict Is Serious About Recovery


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Addiction is a chronic, compulsive dependence on a substance, despite harmful consequences. You can see the signs of addiction by observing actions such as loss of control over use, neglecting responsibilities, withdrawal symptoms, increased tolerance, and continued use despite negative effects on health, relationships, or work.


If you have a loved one with an addiction, it's important to understand that addiction is a complex disease, and they are suffering from a loss of control that is more than just a matter of willpower or choice. Recovery often requires professional treatment, ongoing support, and patience. It's also crucial to set healthy boundaries and seek support for yourself while helping your loved one through their recovery journey.


Early in the recovery process, relapses are common, but they don’t signify the end of the journey. A person who is committed to recovery will do their best to maintain sobriety and continue their progress, even after a relapse.


How To Tell If Someone Is Serious About Recovery


Determining if an addict is serious about recovery involves observing consistent behaviors and attitudes that indicate genuine commitment and an understanding that it requires ongoing effort and dedication. Key signs include:


1. Seeking Help

They actively pursue treatment options, such as enrolling in an addiction rehab program, attending support groups like AA or NA, or working with a therapist.


2. Honesty

They are open about their struggles and willing to discuss their addiction with loved ones and professionals.


3. Consistency

They regularly attend treatment sessions, support meetings, or counseling without making excuses or missing appointments.


4. Taking Responsibility

They acknowledge their role in their addiction and do not blame others for their situation.


5. Setting Boundaries

They distance themselves from people, places, or situations that could trigger a relapse, showing an understanding of the importance of a safe environment.


6. Making Lifestyle Changes

They adopt healthier habits, such as regular exercise, a balanced diet, and finding new hobbies or interests that support their recovery.


7. Building a Support System

They actively seek support from family, friends, or peers in recovery and are willing to lean on this network during challenging times.


8. Managing Relapse Risks

They have a plan for how to deal with cravings and potential relapse triggers, showing a proactive approach to staying sober.



While it's essential to support your loved one during their recovery, it's equally important to care for your own mental health. This can include self-care, individual counseling, or family therapy. If you're not taking care of yourself, you won't be able to provide the full support they need.



Finding Help For A Loved One


While addiction recovery can be challenging, it is achievable with the right resources and support.


Care Addiction not only offers treatment plans that address every facet of an addiction, we also offer ongoing support while in recovery with individual counseling, aftercare and alumni programs. We serve individuals in Geneva, Batavia, Sycamore, St. Charles, and Kane County, with online addiction treatment available anywhere in Illinois. 


If you have questions about helping yourself or a loved one, call us today.

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